Prophet Muhammad SAW (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: There is no better attack on the part of a father for his children’s than to give him good manners,

PARENT CHILD RELATION                 Written by Peer Muzamil Ahmad                                  Reported by Syed Mushtaq
Jammu kashmir Head
NR India news

As mentioned in various Ahadeth books In the words of a narrator, the Prophet Muhammad SAW (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: There is no better attack on the part of a father for his children’s than to give him good manners, Apparently, only father is mentioned in this hadith, but it means both father and Mother, Also the word “literature” here is comprehensive for all Aspects of an education better childs ,whether it be religious or non-religious, Women and men naturally have an extraordinary love for their children.
This hadith tells us what is the best use of this love or what is happening.
The use is for parents to teach their children Etiquette. Let them make their children better human beings and put them in the battle of the world. It has been observed that parents use their love for male puppets in such away that they are engaged in Fulfilling every wish of their children. He says that yes, yes,yes, let it be presented for him. This is the most common use of love, but it is not good for children.
The little child knows nothing but his own desires. All he wants is for his heart to be filled with joy, but it is not a child, Because the most important thing is that the baby will grow up one day. He will grow up and enter the world. What the child needs to succeed in this next stage of life is to be armed and get there, When a child is very young, he starts his education and trainings so that these fast habits become a habit and enter his life. There are three main aspects of these etiquettes of life. Religion, Ethics and Discipline,. Religiously, the training of a child begins immediately after birth, when the sound of Azaan is inserted in his ear, This is a symbolic expression of the fact that the process of making a child jump is to start from an early age.
This is the job of both Mother and Father, Parents should try to inculcate Monotheism and Islamic Beliefs in the child.
Zikr and worship should become an integral part of his life and become part of his personality. He should observe prayers and fast. Let the passion of charity and alms be born in him. He became so interested in the Qur’an and Hadith that he began to read some of it daily. Everyone who casts their eyes upon it, wants a go that this child is a religious child. The form of moral training is to teach the child at every opportunity.
If he makes a mistake, go to this quota. Even if it should be warned. If there is a fight between brothers and sisters, it should be explained immediately. If a child ever lies or abuses someone,Or if someone steals something, it should be taken seriously. And all of this should be done from a very early age so that these things become a permanent part of the child’s life.That’s the decent thing to do, and it should end there. The child should be taught punctuality. Get in the habit of putting things in the right place. Eat and drink regularl. Avoid making noise, urging people to avoid anything that might hurt others.For the real training of the child, the parents themselves have to adapt their life style accordingly. If you tell your child not to lie, you should first adopt it himself
So far it become fruitful.
If you smoke, it makes sense to speak out against smoking in front of your child. If you do not fulfill your duty and tell the child, son,always keep your promise, you will not get such advice. The child sees his parents as role models. In the same way, the elder child is a model for younger children.